I understand why they get defensive, for example:
1. when a guy goes shirtless in a girl's room, first thing that the couple are thought as doing is having sex.
2. when a guy hugs a girl from behind, they had sex.
3. when they kiss, they are going to have sex.
this is not based on any survey by anyone but by my own observation in the social circles that I have.
look, if you want to criticize someone, look at the log in your eye before you pick out splinters in others.
If you have nothing better to say, don't say it out.
If people want to post pictures, let them be. Don't nuclear bomb them. If you feel uncomfortable, speak kindly as you would others to, to you.
I have been through situations where people have thought of me doing "disgusting" things with my ex.
But the truth was, I spent my time alone with him watching sitcoms and movies. What's so disgusting about it?
As it is said :"Do not judge a book by its cover"
Others may not be like you. They may not be as disgusting as you are. So stop tainting others.
T.H.A.N.K.Y.O.U.
